Who doesn’t love a wedding!  A day filled with love, connection and celebration. I would love to be a part of yours.

So, just what is a humanist wedding?

This is both easy and tricky to define as every ceremony is unique and incredibly special in its own way. The main thing to say is that there are no rules. Your ceremony can be big or small, grand or informal, traditional or completely off the wall. It can take place in a fancy venue or in the middle of a field, you are in control of all these details. There is no set script and no formal words have to be spoken. Your ceremony will be all about you and totally bespoke.

Humanist ceremonies are non-religious, instead rooted in values such as equality, fairness, compassion, respect and inclusivity. Although humanists do not believe in God this does not mean that people who hold religious beliefs are excluded. Everyone is very welcome at a humanist ceremony.

Your wedding will be led by me, a trained humanist wedding celebrant. I will take time to get to know you as a couple and I will write and deliver a meaningful ceremony just for you. Your day can include symbolic moments such as handfasting or hand-binding, symbolic knot-tying, or lighting a unity candle as these are a beautiful way to enhance the meaning and emotion of a non-religious wedding. We can also include unique vows, readings, poems, music, communal singing, pets, family traditions (or not!) and anything else that makes it feel right for you.

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life and you deserve to have your wedding your way, without compromise; this is something I can help you with.

How is a humanist wedding different from a civil ceremony?

A humanist wedding is different from a civil ceremony or register office wedding in that it’s entirely personalised to you. Also, it can take place anywhere that is significant to you as a couple. It could be the place you first met, somewhere with happy childhood memories or a location that signifies something about you. Whether it is a beach wedding, a woodland wedding or a wedding at home in the garden, a humanist ceremony is entirely focused on you, your love, and your story.

My Role as Your Celebrant
As your celebrant, I will spend time getting to know you both individually and as a couple. Through conversations and questions, I’ll help shape your story, crafting a bespoke ceremony script that captures your journey and what makes your relationship special.

On the day, I’ll deliver a meaningful ceremony that celebrates your love in an authentic and heartfelt way. Whether you’re planning a small, intimate gathering or a grand, elaborate celebration, I’m here to ensure your ceremony is everything you’ve dreamed of.

How is a Humanist Wedding Different from a Civil Ceremony?
A Humanist wedding is much more personal than a civil ceremony or register office wedding. It is designed entirely around you, allowing you to choose a location that has special meaning. Unlike civil ceremonies, which often follow a set script, a Humanist wedding focuses on your love story, your personalities, and your vision for the day.

Are Humanist Weddings Legally Recognised in the UK?
Humanist weddings are legally recognised in Scotland, Northern Ireland, Jersey, and Guernsey, making it easy to marry in one heartfelt ceremony.

In England, Wales, and the Isle of Man, Humanist weddings are not yet legally binding. Many couples choose to have a simple legal registration at a register office before or after their Humanist ceremony. Humanists UK continues to campaign for legal recognition of Humanist weddings across all parts of the UK.

An Inclusive Celebration for All
Humanist weddings are inclusive, welcoming, and open to everyone. Whether you’re planning a same-sex wedding or any other celebration of love, my ceremonies reflect your values and your story.

So, if a religious wedding isn’t for you and a registrar-led ‘insert names here’ ceremony feels too impersonal, a celebrant-led wedding could be the perfect choice!

Every wedding ceremony I create starts with a blank page, ensuring it is completely tailored to you.

So, if you’re looking for a ceremony that is:

• Beautifully crafted, telling your story and reflecting your values with wit and passion.
• Led with confidence by someone with natural authority and rich life experience.
• Delivered authentically, with a warm, engaging voice that captivates your guests.
• Light hearted and joyful, while honouring the significance of the occasion.
• Creative and heartfelt, full of emotion without unnecessary sentimentality.

Then please don’t hesitate to get in touch. Let’s make your wedding truly unforgettable!